Expert of psychology of a few children is recently in investigation discovery, the child most those who feel scared is the parent if can speaking as follows to them:

1, " goofy, trashy thing. 1, " goofy, trashy thing..

2, " you are a trash simply. 2, " you are a trash simply..

3, " you can go really, can make this kind of thing unexpectedly. Can make this kind of thing unexpectedly..

4, " Pull in your ears! ! How are you not obedient? How are you not obedient??

5, " I say to be no good even if be no good! 5, " I say to be no good even if be no good!!

6, " I again also without giving thought to you, follow you good. Follow you good..

7, " beg you to be not done good so again? 7, " beg you to be not done good so again??

8, " if you took an examination of 100 minutes, I am bought to you... "

9, " you do this kind of thing, made me sad appear really. Made me sad appear really..

10, " you did bad thing again, be fully bad simply. Be fully bad simply..

The expert thinks, the child's heart is flimsy, they hope to get support and understanding, each encouragement speech, can make child confidence centuple, but berate crudely, sufficient can make their dignity is harmed by huge. Deny easily oneself child, express to suspect to their ability, it is very terrible. "Foolish, slow-witted, stupid, bad " , the most crucial court decision is in the child's heart, turned them into flintily a family or school " additional kind " , be in as antipathetic as surroundings while, their interior world also can become gloomy.

Edison is included by the teacher in one's childhood " stupid child " , but his mother is encouraging him all the time, say he will be successful, eventually, edison became a great inventor. Actually, each child is a talent, it is us only a lot of parents lack discovery, lack the method of education, and make " talent " brush a shoulder with his child and pass.