Above all, domestic education, parents and children should build good friend relationship, this kind of relation is equal, is not fluctuation relation, this relation has 3 meanings: One, parents should respect the child's idea, regard the child as of an independence individual, is not the child that whats do not know, encounter a thing to want to discuss with the child more (include to be concerned with the child and the important matter in the home) , for instance the parent wants to make his child all-round now, then all sorts of coaching an after school life that joined the child, coach in the choice class when, the parent should listen to the child more, according to the child's hobby, let him child choose, borrow this to also can let the child feel parents respects him, return the independent consciousness that can foster the child. Do not think the child is the child, whats do not understand, the child does not participate in the thing of adult, actually, this kind of idea is wrong, the parent mights as well the experience that thinks oneself, are we ability is sensible after manhood, either, we had our idea when 78 years old, don't we also write down a lot of things when 56 years old very clearly, in one's childhood, become us when others the child, we also are not to cherish ill-affected come over. Actually, the child's expression desire very strong, be in when the child project oneself when, the meeting is very glad, especially when father mother discusses a medium important matter with him, he can feel I was brought up, I should be parental help sb to get over a difficulty, borrow this to also foster responsibility heart of the child, also can let him understand parents also is bromide at the same time, also have when be anxious, can foster independent consciousness of the child in detail thereby, and help other, the good quality that dares to take on. Current a lot of children do not sufficient person of provide for the aged, of course, children has major responsibility, but had turned round to think, if at the outset when young man and woman is young, parents teachs good child, the child can become such; 2, since be a friend, the parent has what trouble to also want to say with the child, perhaps the child still can be your help sb to get over a difficulty, pass this kind of communication, can establish responsibility heart of the child slowly, and the good quality that cares other, clean of deep of Zheng of Great Master of famous fairy tales and his son significance is immense, his son can like him even that schoolgirl in the class tells him, visible relation is different from general. He asks son exam pass mark goes only, but son every time achievement be among the best of candidates, should a lot of parents are worth to draw lessons from this; 3, as the friend, the friend made a fault, our meeting substantially rebuke, can hit a friend, won't, accordingly, made a fault when the child, the parent wants calmly discuss with the child, why can make such mistake, have what consequence, how should correct later, also can establish the child to be brave in to admit one's mistake so, become to dare make the person that dare become.
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